Tuesday, July 2, 2024

30 Lessons I Learned Before Turned 30

 

  1. Know the world: learn debate and buy stocks.

  2. Love people, but most importantly yourself

  3. Get a pet

  4. Be reflective, ask people and yourself

  5. Solo travel, you will see kindness around the worls

  6. Learn other language

  7. Boundaries

  8. Put your ideas out there, you may find your like-minded people

  9. Learn to let go

  10. Know mundane things that made you happy

  11. Be assertive, communicate your disappointment

  12. Your life grows around decisions that you made

  13. Love people, use stuff, not vice versa

  14. Take a rest

  15. Humans, you and other people are complex, have enough empathy for them

  16. Forgive your parents

  17. Archive your achievements

  18. Menghalalkan cara yang halal, know your value and stay true to them

  19. Embrace imperfections, excellence consists of some failure and its lessons learned

  20. Find your flow, sholat is mainly a 'structure' of your life

  21. Love your body, and only love can hurt like gym

  22. Make yourself your own reference point

  23. Comparison is the thief of joy, but reference is good

  24. ASK FOR IT, if you want it

  25. A job may last a year or two, but a career is long-term, you are forever

  26. Take care of yourself

  27. Learn that grief is humane

  28. Learn to give and receive appreciation genuinely

  29. Discipline had many forms (including nocturnal)

  30. Your work is not you, but part of you


I know this is a redundant and non-MECE list, I was also planning to write a post about each point, god knows when

But this post alone is better than nothing, hopefully